When “I Don’t Want to Go” Means More

Social anxiety in children is more than just shyness; it's a profound fear of social situations that can quietly shape a child’s world. For many parents, especially those already navigating ADHD-related challenges, it can be hard to tell whether a child’s avoidance is defiance, distraction… or something deeper.

But here's the truth, recognizing and addressing social anxiety early can change the trajectory of a child’s development and dramatically reduce stress for everyone in the family.

For many with ADHD, whether kids, teens, or adults, sleep disturbances are often the sneaky culprit behind that constant tiredness.

Sure, ADHD is known for its energy and hyperactivity, but here’s the twist: it’s also exhausting. And not just for parents, those with ADHD themselves often battle poor sleep, leading to foggy mornings, grumpy afternoons, and bedtime routines that feel like a wrestling match with your own brain.

The Three Most Common Sleep Struggles in ADHD

Falling Asleep

Staying Asleep

Waking up

I remember the gut-wrenching guilt that followed my divorce, a guilt that clung to me like a shadow. I tormented myself with the idea that somehow, I had caused my child's ADHD. Maybe the stress, the emotional rollercoaster, or my inability to hold everything together had contributed to his struggles. It wasn't until I learned about the genetic nature of ADHD that I was able to release that burden and understand that this was never about something I had done or failed to do.

But the guilt didn’t stop there.

I remember the gut-wrenching guilt that followed my divorce, a guilt that clung to me like a shadow. I tormented myself with the idea that somehow, I had caused my child's ADHD. Maybe the stress, the emotional rollercoaster, or my inability to hold everything together had contributed to his struggles. It wasn't until I learned about the genetic nature of ADHD that I was able to release that burden and understand that this was never about something I had done or failed to do.

But the guilt didn’t stop there.

I remember the gut-wrenching guilt that followed my divorce, a guilt that clung to me like a shadow. I tormented myself with the idea that somehow, I had caused my child's ADHD. Maybe the stress, the emotional rollercoaster, or my inability to hold everything together had contributed to his struggles. It wasn't until I learned about the genetic nature of ADHD that I was able to release that burden and understand that this was never about something I had done or failed to do.

But the guilt didn’t stop there.

I remember the gut-wrenching guilt that followed my divorce, a guilt that clung to me like a shadow. I tormented myself with the idea that somehow, I had caused my child's ADHD. Maybe the stress, the emotional rollercoaster, or my inability to hold everything together had contributed to his struggles. It wasn't until I learned about the genetic nature of ADHD that I was able to release that burden and understand that this was never about something I had done or failed to do.

But the guilt didn’t stop there.

I see you. The weight of constant overwhelm, feeling like you're never doing enough for your children, trying to juggle it all while your own needs take a back seat. The frustration that comes with seeing your child struggle, while at the same time, you're quietly battling your own emotional storms. It's the silent struggle that too many parents of children with ADHD face, and it often goes unnoticed by others and even by the parents themselves.

“I’ve tried everything, and nothing works.”

If you’ve ever said this (or thought it), you’re not alone. Parenting a child with ADHD can feel like an endless cycle of trying strategies, facing setbacks, and wondering why things aren’t improving fast enough.

Have you ever looked at your child and thought, They should be able to handle this by now? Maybe your 10-year-old melts down over small frustrations, your teenager forgets homework assignments daily, or your 8-year-old can’t seem to transition from one activity to another without a battle.

Establishing routines can be a game changer, especially for families navigating the complexities of ADHD. If you’re like most parents raising children with ADHD, you might feel overwhelmed trying to balance work, family, and the unique challenges ADHD brings. Mornings may feel like a whirlwind of forgotten backpacks and missed breakfasts. Evenings might be a battle to get homework done, and bedtime can stretch into an endless negotiations and excuses for just one more thing... These daily struggles can leave you drained and doubting your ability to manage it all.

Picture this: It’s Monday morning, and the house is alive with chaos. One child can’t find their socks, the other forgot about a school project due today, and you’re trying to juggle it all while preparing for your own busy day. Sound familiar? For many ADHD families, this scenario isn’t the exception—it’s the rule.

It’s a common misconception that intelligence can somehow compensate for the challenges of ADHD. Many bright children with ADHD manage to mask their struggles for years, using their intelligence to find creative ways around their difficulties.

The holiday season is often seen as a time for joy and connection, but for families navigating ADHD, it can bring unique challenges for both adults and children. From disrupted routines to heightened expectations, the holidays can feel more stressful than festive.

Ever heard this statement before? “ADHD is just an excuse for bad behavior?” It’s one of the biggest myths about ADHD—and one of the most harmful.

Ever feel like you have to be a superhero, but you’re barely holding it together? As a mom raising a child with ADHD, the pressure can feel immense. You juggle advocating for your child at school, managing emotional outbursts, and keeping everything at home running smoothly—all while trying to maintain your own sanity.

Imagine feeling crushed by even the smallest criticism, as if it were a deeply personal attack. For individuals with ADHD, this can be an everyday experience, thanks to something many people are unfamiliar with: Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD).

One of the most common frustrations parents express about children with ADHD is the belief that “They can do it when they want to.”

For individuals with ADHD, certain tasks—especially those that are repetitive or require sustained focus—can feel insurmountable.

For individuals with ADHD, boredom isn’t simply uncomfortable—it can feel like a form of mental torture, often referred to as "boreture.

Understanding "Bad Behavior" in Children with ADHD: It’s a Symptom, Not the Problem